That deadly fateful day..02 Nov

Sometime in Oct 2006, I popped up the thought of selling the current flat as I want to apply a new flat of my own with my wife. In fact, this thought has been with me for many years, just that I saw my brother's issue happening and did not wish to burden the family.


My M was very furious as i told her abt our thought. She was reluctant and i firmly told her that it is. U and me cannot live together and there is no happiness in this house. I will rather live on my own and move on with my life. For the next few weeks, she was very upset and cried practically every day...until on fine day..the deadly day..


That day, 02 Nov 2006 around 6.45pm, she came back from work and used a knife and threatened me in not selling the house. My wife witnessed this and i eventually called my neighbours and brother in help. The police then came and recorded a statement. Police asked me whether do i want to charge against my M. I have a second thought and did not proceed with it. In the end, my wife and i decided to shift out for the time being.

During the week, my brother called me and we discussed the issue. That brother of mine is very selfish. The only solution to this problem is that he sells his current flat, since he is a divorcee, and takes over the ownership of my current flat. While i can then apply a flat of my own. HE said "NO" as if he does that, a few years later, if he wants to sell the flat, he has to go through this whole episode again. I told him but now my wife and daughter are having safety problems as my M took a knife and threatened to kill me!!! He said "so what this thing happens" and "dun say you got wife and kid, its nothing big deal". I was very dishearted. When he got problems, i helped him and waited. And now, i am encountering a Life and Death situation and yet he said such things !!!!!!! He even said I am not so noble in waiting for him to settle his issue and blah blah blah....

After a week, we moved back and i had a talk with my parents. My M still refused to sell the flat and I was very determined to sell. I then came to an agreement with my M. She dun sell, ok...from now on..I will never call her or acknowledge her...she lives her own way while i live on my own....she don't bother and i dun bother her...Tat's It....No kinship to talk as she is one who does not value it. In her eyes, it is only $$$$...why i said that...She even demanded the $$$ that she gave me for my wedding gift back from me . Why in this world has such a Mother??? I cant believe it....