Last Sat (29 Mar), my wife, faustina and myself attended one of my gd friend's newborn party. We reached there ard 2 plus as we took a cab. Well, it was indeed an enjoyable event as we can see how my friend juggled with his newborn, by the way, his is a baby girl.

Reflecting on the day, the moments of handling my baby faustina was indeed an enjoyable period. She has grown from a small baby and now become a big girl. From not much talking to a lot of talking and something, her talking can be quite disturbing at times. Anyway, me and my wife enjoy her talking as we are pleased that she has outgrown herself. Continue my girl, you are the one!

I recalled a few weeks ago, my wife uttered something to me and made me ponder. She said that she does not have many friends and her friends are mainly associates whom they hardly call her. she is usually the one who will contact them. Unlike me, i have my own group, secondary and poly friends and even my colleagues to talk to. This is what she call friendship is. This statement makes me think....

To be frank, my friends are also like my wife's friends. We call when we need assistance. We hardly meet up as i am juggling my family and they do have their own life as well. I can only meet up a few as my mj kakis, maybe once every 2 months. In a way, they are still in my radar zone. But, i will take the extra effort to send them a msg when their birthdays are round the corner. That's a simple and warm gesture from me so that they will remember me.

I may have a lot of friends and colleagues. But who can i really depend upon when i am in trouble. I know that my wife will stand by me when there is a crisis. As for my close friends, I know some can help while some wish to help but within their means. Nevertheless, I appreciate their efforts and presence.

After reading this write up, I just want to make a point: The contacts with you all may be lesser but I will never forget you all. If I can be of help to you, please do not hesitate to call me. I value this true friendship with you all!

Cheers.